In the often-repeated narrative of life, individuals grow, marry, raise families, confront illness or age, and eventually, pass away. The aftermath involves grieving families coming together to plan a funeral, a process that frequently includes ordering flowers to be sent as a gesture of sympathy and love.
Typically, mourners gather at the service, where the floral arrangements are displayed. Following the ceremony, they may accompany the casket to the burial site, witnessing the placement of the ordered flowers on the fresh grave. The family then proceeds to navigate the difficult path of grieving, attempting to piece their lives back together without the presence of their departed loved one.
This scenario has become a standard way to honor the deceased, with flowers symbolizing love and respect. However, the inherent flaw lies in the fact that the departed cannot experience the floral tributes. They cannot appreciate the vibrant colors, inhale the fragrant scents, or witness the love embedded in each bloom. The flowers, while a heartfelt tradition, hold no significance for the departed as they rest in eternal peace.
The author of this plea envisions an alternative scenario—one that transcends the conventional reliance on flowers placed on a grave. Instead, the emphasis is on seizing the opportunity to express love, gratitude, and appreciation to the living. The sentiment is straightforward: don’t wait until it’s too late.
The plea urges individuals to send flowers now, while their loved ones can still witness the vibrant colors, savor the fragrances, and acknowledge the love conveyed. Rather than deferring expressions of affection until the funeral, the plea advocates for seizing the present moment to say, “I love you,” to mend relationships, and to show appreciation for the shared life experiences.
While the tradition of sending flowers to honor the departed remains valuable, the plea encourages a more immediate and impactful approach—expressing sentiments to the living while they can still hear, feel, and reciprocate the love being shared.
In essence, the plea suggests that we are missing out on the profound impact of expressing love, gratitude, and affection in the present, rather than waiting for the silent grave to serve as the canvas for floral tributes.
